The Janis Family


Sunday, December 19, 2010

Miracles and Blessings

Today I lead a miracle.  We only have one choir practice before we perform, largely because no one has time or interest in attending choir practice-myself included.  Last week I only had 3 people at our one and only choir practice for our Christmas number.  I made a plea for ward members to attend our Sunday run through before sacrament meeting.  We had about 15 people.  The first time through didn't sound so good, the second time was okay, but i felt a little disappointed because it really is a pretty song and I knew that with just a few more run throughs it could sound good, but there was no more time to practice.  When we sang it was wonderful.  It sounded incredible.  I have to stood in aware as I lead the choir, it was a humbling feeling.  Music in sacrament meeting must be important to Heavenly Father because he gave our ward a miracle as our choir sang today.

On Friday Dover received his patriarchal blessing.  Red Letter Day, it was a day to make all the heart ache that comes with parenting worth it.  The spirit was so strong and Dover was so touched by the spirit and words of the blessing.  He and Shalayne will be leaving to drive to Utah together on December 27th.  Dover will be working, and taking a few college classes, and SNOW BOARDING!  Shalayne is transfering to UVU and will be playing soccer there.  UVU has conference games in Houston!  LUCKY US!  It is so fun to have her here! It's nice to be 5 instead of 4.

On Saturday we celebrated Hanukkah with Damon and Tiffany and their family. Brandon's parents are Jewish converts to the LDS church and we celebrate Hanukkah and Passover in remembrance of our Jewish heritage.  Brandon's brother Roark shared this fun remaking of the Taio Cruze song Dynamite into a Hanukkah song called "Candlelight".  If you know anything about Hanukkah it's hysterical.

Candlelight - The Maccabeats - Hanukkah

Holiday Homework


I've been working as a Music Educator at a Montessori school in Houston called Smaller Scholars.  Each Fall semester they put on a big winter show.  I wrote the show this year and put in a lot of fun broadway numbers and other fun numbers.  The show was called Holiday Homework, it was a hit with the children and their parents.  Numbers I wove into the show included:  Hard Knock Life, Seize the Day, Book Report, Surf'n Santa and several fun children's choral numbers. I felt a great sense of accomplishment and relief when the show was over.  Brandon and the the boys were really impressed they had no idea how big of a project I'd undertaken.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Sorrow

After sharing the exciting news with us the she was pregnant, at Kylee's doctors appointment today she learned the baby she was carrying had died.  She and Ryan sent the family this sweet email:

Hello Family!
Well, I guess we jumped the gun a little bit sharing our exciting news at Thanksgiving. Our routine doctors appointment today did not give us information about the healthy baby we were hoping for, no heart beat.
We are feeling optimistic and blessed to have a little trial to learn from together and some empathy to gain.

Sorry to spread the burden... We are really doing great and we just didn't want to create any awkward situations by not letting you know.

Thanks for all your wonderful examples and love!
Kylee & Ryan  

How our hearts hurt but how grateful we are for the gifts of the spirit and the love of family at moments like these.  


Sunday, November 28, 2010

Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving was a great weekend, celebrated by family get togethers in both Utah and Texas.  The girls were in Utah and the rest of us in Texas.  The Janis women in Utah created a spontaneous arrangement of For the Beauty of the Earth. Wish I could have been there to watch the process. I'm grateful that I could see the performance online.  Brandon and I both spoke in church on Sunday and I directed the choir for the first time.  I felt Heavenly Father's pleasure as we performed.  I will learn from being choir director and may even find it to be a well disguised blessing.

Thanksgiving Music Making in Utah

Sunday, November 7, 2010

The Last Few Weeks

We haven't been up to too much lately.  Last Friday we installed Damon and Tiffany's garden.  We'll be sharing it with them until we have one of our own.  This Saturday Tiffany and I got it planted.  Last Saturday Brandon and I went up to Dallas to watch Sarah and Laura in Annie Jr.  It was fun to see them living their dreams,  pictured with them is Esther.  This weekend Brandon and Daenon went on a scout camp out.  Like father like son, you can see them rolling their eyes at me for making them get their pictures taken.  I've been very busy with work.  Working a solid part time job has definitely changed the tempo of my life.  At least I like the work. Daenon has been a big help and now takes care of most of the cooking and kitchen clean up.  His mission companions will be lucky! Daenon was a boom box for Halloween.  He even made it so he could really play music.  He enjoyed our ward Halloween party.  He loves our ward.  Sundays are his favorite day of the week and this from the three-year-old who called church the "dumb, stinky, ugly place".   BYU won the Mountain West Conference soccer championships.  The tournament was in San Diego. Auna played well.  They beat New Mexico in the final.  New Mexico was their only conference loss so it was vindi cating.  The NCAA tournament begins on Thursday.  The link to the BYU women's soccer page is:  http://www.byucougars.com/soccer_w/ .  Ron is giving a presentation at a medical conference in Denver and will be gone until Tuesday evening, it's possible that BYU will leave for the NCAA tournament on Tuesday, that means Auna and Ron will end up spending a week and a half apart.  Poor newly weds! Ron was able to fly down and surprise Auna by watching BYU's Thursday game.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Remember the Alamo!








To escape the two bedroom apartment blues, on Friday, we took a mini-trip to visit the Alamo in San Antonio. We started our trip with an IMAX film about the battle at the Alamo called the Price of Freedom, and then we visited the actual Alamo. I could have spent a lot longer reading and looking at the old artifacts. After visiting the Alamo we went to the River Walk. What a discovery! The River Walk is built one story below the main street level and reminds me of the river lined streets of Europe. The walk is lined with lush landscapes, waterfalls, and quiet pools, the follow the San Antonio River as it winds through the city. Quaint shops and restaurants line the river walkway. Thanks to Dover’s 50% employee discount at Landry’s we were able to enjoy a great dinner at Salt Grass Steak House on their outdoor patio overlooking the River Walk. I can’t imagine a more perfect experience. We enjoyed feeding bread crumbs to some beautiful birds while we waited for our main course. It was an absolutely beautiful and peaceful setting. While eating we talked about what the price of freedom is. I think the general consensus was that the price is self control. After eating we made a fast trip to the Tower Over the Americas. It’s a tower 750 feet high. The wind at the top is intense as you can see from the pictures! We were able to get a quick view of San Antonio from the sky and enjoy a 4-D theater ride called Skies over Texas. The high light of the show was being spit on and poked by a bull; the snake wasn’t too bad either. Then we rushed home to get Dover back to work by 5:30. We highly recommend a trip to San Antonio.

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Announcing CHIA!


We added a new addition to our family.  A darling princess of a little dog that after much disagreement between Dover and Daenon was finally named Chia!  She is a Chihuahua/Dachshund mix and the most perfectly behaved dog I've ever know.  We've heard her bark only once and we've had her now for almost three days.  She is Daenon's buddy although it was Dover that made the first request for her.  With the two moves we've had to tell the boys no so much that we decided to say yes to the small dog.  We got her from an animal rescue shelter.  She is almost a year old.  She's spent most her life at the shelter but must have been well cared for because her behavior is nearly perfect.  She is affectionate, and playful, but calms down easily and she doesn't bark.  Her house training was a breeze.  We have to pinch ourselves she's been so easy. I think Brandon might even like her. 

Catching Up!

The past month was a whirl wind.  We took a nearly 3 week trip to Wyoming, Utah, and Arizona and logged over 60 hours in the car.  We were able to watch 3 of Auna's games and 3 of Shalayne's game and spend time with a lot of our family.  We also got to go through the temple with Caleb. Brandon was able to be his escort. While we were gone Dover got a job at Applebee's as a host.  He enjoys it.  I'll post pictures of him in his Applebee's attire later!  We had quit a job getting everything back in order when we got home and I started teaching immediately. I've never worked this much so it's a new experience in balancing my time.  The next week BYU came down to play two games in Texas, one in Houston and the other in Austin.  Auna had an assist in the Houston game against Rice.  She set up the only score in that game.  Later that week the boys talked us into getting a little surprise for the family.  I'll be blogging about that in minute!  Also they called me to be ward choir director.  HELP!  I'm great with children and music but utterly unqualified for ward choir director!

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Dover's 17!

We spent Dover's b-day at the beach.  It was beautiful and the temperature of the air and water was perfect.  What could be better than eating fresh peach pie on the beach with sandwhiches from Quizno's? Maybe watching Dover and Daenon enjoy playing together.

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Happy Anniversary Kylee & Ryan!

2 years ago today our cute red head added this wonderful red head to our family.  They do make each other better and our family better.  We appreciate the love and support they constantly give to us!  They are a delight and a great blessing to us!  Happy Anniversary Kylee & Ryan!  We love you, to see their blog click HERE.

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

2-A-Days!


Auna and Shalayne are back at soccer with 2-a-day practices and lots of scary fitness tests!  We are looking forward to the season.  For Wyoming's schedule click HERE, for BYU's schedule click HERE.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

When you dream, dream big

Those of you who know Brandon well know that he is a thinker.  Heaven to him is sitting down and having a deep exploration and discussion about topics that really matter.  He never looks at things on a surface level, he is always exploring to better understand an issue or to make a process more efficient.  He is both a dreamer and a hard worker.  As with most dreamers failure (by the terms of financial success) has been his teacher, but from it he has learned much about what is really important in life.  He has created a fictional novel that shares his insights into what is important.  His novel, The World’s Greatest Spectacle, talks about the importance of seeking truth. Galileo said, “All truths are easy to understand once they are discovered; the point is to discover them.”  Brandon has a dream to help the world better understand and discover truth.  This book is the start of his big dream.  When you have a minute visit the books website at: www.worldsgreatestspectacle.com.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Idea from Kindermusik

As most of you know I teach Kindermusik.  This is something we did in our Creatures of the Ocean class today.  It was a big hit.  I wanted to share the idea on my blog.  You can down load the crab song HERE.  For those of you with young children this could be a great activity.  Spend some time listening to the crab song and pretending to be crabs, then make and eat the crab craft.  

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Thank you Daenon!

I got a simple Sansa MP4 player to organize my Kindermusik music and help me learn the songs.  It arrived Friday, on Saturday I excitedly sat down at the computer to transfer all my music.  Over the past few weeks I’d downloaded from CD’s over 1,000 Kindermusik songs to itunes.  Being computer music illiterate I didn’t know that downloading music into itunes makes it unplayable on other music players!  OUCH!  I’d spent so much time down loading CD’s and I didn’t want to start over.  I spent 6 hours of absolute frustration trying to figure out a remedy. 
Daenon was sleeping during my frustration because his flight back from Utah hadn’t arrived in  Houston until 1:30am.  By the time he woke up I’d given up!  It took him about 20 minutes on the computer and he’d found some free software and a way to convert the songs into a format that my MP4 player would read.  THANK YOU DAENON!

Space Camp

Daenon’s back after sending 9 days in Utah.  He was able to spend 3 days at the Christy McAuliffe Space Center camp.  He had a wonderful time and got to be the Captain on one of their space voyage simulations.  For more information on the center click www.spacecamputah.org.  If you’re ever in Utah and want something for the kiddo’s to do I would highly recommend signing them up for a space camp.  Daenon also enjoyed getting to spend some time with his sisters and brother-in-laws.  By the way Daenon knows his brother-in-laws walk on water, we all agree.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

She's Amazing!

Our cousin Heather Janis won a photography contest with this picture. We appreciate all the emotions of life she helps us feel and remember!  CONGRATULATIONS HEATHER!

What We've been upto!

Boy's at Risky'sWaiting to get a tableEating!
  A real Cow Girl!

We spent the 4th of July with Damon & Tiffany's family.  Tiffany's sister Shelby and her family also joined us.  We had great fireworks.  Probably didn't compare to Evanston but they were plenty big enough to have me worried that someone was going to get hurt.  Dover and Daenon enjoyed being pyromaniacs!  Last weekend we went up to Dallas for some fun with our other Texas Janis cousins.   Ethan gave his mission farewell address. We  went to a famous Texas BBQ rib place called Risky's.  It's in Ft. Worth Texas and except for the Humidity and heat it reminded me of Cody.  It's wonderful and hard to see these boys leave on their missions.  Shalayne came down with Grandma and Grandpa Janis and that was a real treat to have her around.  She even helped me teach Kindermusik on Monday.  We miss all our sisters!  Dover left for Arizona for four weeks and Daenon is in Utah for a Space Camp.  The house is quiet and I'm starting to catch up.  I had a big full week Kindermusik camp that kept me busy this past week!

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Utmost Assurance

Often in life things just don't seem to work out in-spite of my best efforts.  Here is a promise I was reminded of in reading a conference talk today.  Elder Robert D. Hales, quotes President Monson and Joseph Smith, saying "'Sometimes we are too quick to judge the effect of our successes and failures'.  May I add, don't look at today's trials as eternal.  Heavenly Father does His work in the long term.  'There is much which lieth in futurity,' the Prophet Joseph Smith said, Therefore,..... let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power; and then may we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God, and his arm to be revealed.'”  D&C 123 15,17

Sunday, June 27, 2010


Auna & Ronald get back from the Philippines today.  They had a busy two months full of mostly service but also some fun and wonderful experiences.  In addition to helping with the charity that performs club feet and cleft palate surgery they also helped distribute humanitarian kits.  Ronald's dad helped them do some vacationing.  They got to swim with dolphins, (I have to admit I'm quite jealousy about this) feed tigers, and do a host of other unique and fun things!  Here are some pictures from their time across the world.  Kylee, Ryan, Shalayne, Caleb, and most of the youth young adult cousins are on a cousin trip to Lake Powell this weekend.  Oh things you can do!

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Heather has some of Auna & Ronald's wedding pictures on her blog!!!!! Check them out at: heatherlorraine.blogspot.com.  Words can't express my appreciation for all the help that was given to us by our family and friends.  Auna thought it was a perfect day, my only regret is that I didn't get to spend anytime with anyone.  Many of you came so far and I hardly even got to say hi!  I'll enjoy the next family wedding where I'll get to be helping but not be in charge and then I should have time to enjoy all of you!

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

An update from Texas!  We are into our little apartment that is actually in Richmond, not Katy Texas.  I’ve unpacked the last BIG box but still have lots of little detailed organizing to do!  I’ve already taught two Kindermusik classes and Daenon will be going to another scout camp on Saturday.  The ward was just split and they have a big primary but a small mutual.  Dover is one of two Priests.  There are quite a few Deacons though.  The bishop told us he’d been praying for our family to move in, how do you respond to that! Dover was immediately called to be the second assistant in the Priests Quorum.  He was given a powerful blessing when set apart.  Heavenly Father definitely understood the battle raging in Dover’s heart.  Hannah (Dover’s heart throb-see his face book page for more details) gave him some great advice.  I believe his heart is starting to find understanding and acceptance that Texas is now home.  Our new address is:  7115 S. Mason Rd, #2414, Richmond, TX, 77407.

We never want to move again!  Moving is a tremendous amount of work and stress!  But I don’t want to be in an apartment forever so at least one more move is inevitable!  
These are pictures of Dover and his friends hanging out at Grandma and Grandpa Dover's. To say this move is hard on him is an understatement.  Experience like this help us grow and become who we should be, but it's not a pleasant process for anyone involved.  My heart hurts for him and I understand his hurt and longing more than he knows! I left my parents behind in Gilbert.  During my married life I've never lived close to my parents.

“Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.”
Bernice Johnson Reagon

“Opportunities to find deeper powers within ourselves come when life seems most challenging.”
 Joseph Campbell

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”
 Joseph Campbell

“Challenges make you discover things about yourself that you never really knew. They're what make the instrument stretch-what make you go beyond the norm.”
Cousins!

Mia's treat, she insisted,  slurpies after the game!


Shalayne and Allie

The Saturday before leaving Arizona Shalayne got to come and visit!  She was in town for a soccer game with the Utah Starzz.  She was able to spend a little time with Ger & Kim’s children and Mia came with us to Shalayne’s game.  She played great and it was so fun to see her!  

Thursday, June 10, 2010

More Scout Camp!

Daenon was selected last night for the "Order of the Arrow." He took his code of silence very seriously, and wants to reach the highest membership in the Order.  Yesterday he kept asking about putting his name on a list to work here at camp next year.  I told him that was fine, but that we would need to research similar camps in Texas in case getting him to Phoenix was a challenge.  He LOVES his jacket.  Last night after prayer, it was so nice to see him sitting at the table diligently working on his merit badge homework.  He had such a serious, focused expression as he did a LOT of writing to complete the assignments.  It's hard to express, but with how much of a battle we've had for years to get him to do anything like that, it's very gratifying to see a glimpse of maturity.  I bought him the 100 year commemorative knife and will surprise him with it at lunch.
At a multi-troop campfire last night a flag was retired.  The military and the Boy Scouts retire flags when they become too worn to be flown.  The ceremony was reverent and special.  I'll want to search for the script when I have a faster internet connection.  The flag is cut into the iindividual stripes, and the stars are kept in one piece.  A symbolic explanation is read, and first the red stripes are put in the fire with about a 30 second pause between each stripe.  Everyone stands at attention with the proper salute.  Then the white flags.  Then the stars.  It was an incredible experience.  At our campsite prayer, each of the scoutmasters gave what's called a "scoutmasters minute."  We each talked about what America means to us.  One of the other leaders fought in Vietnam.  I asked the boys to remember the image of the flag being raised and lowered everyday at camp, because someday they will understand it better, and they will need to decide if they are going to stand for God and freedom as powerful forces continue their assault against both. For my "minute" tonight I have a roll of 50 pennies that I'm going to distribute.  Each boy will get three, so they can keep one and pass two along.  Bet you can't guess what I'm going to talk about... :-)) 

Note:  On every penny are the words In God We Trust, Liberty, and E Pluribus Unum (out of many one).  To understand their significance to America you can click HERE to watch this U tube video. 

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Some info. from Brandon about Scout Camp!

Monday: Out of the 61 troops up here, 58 are LDS and so yesterday's fast and testimony meeting was very well attended (400 +).  It was a chapel directly from the early days of the church:  Tall ponderosa's, half-sawn logs for benches, the sun playing hide and seek through the trees, birds chirping, the breeze rustling through the trees....  Of course sitting in the back you quickly miss electronics connecting a microphone and speakers.  But even if you couldn't hear most of the testimonies, you could feel the spirit.  When we got back to camp we had our own meeting with the Crystal Shores Ward (they have nine boys added to our three sharing the campsite).  We had our own testimony meeting and everyone bore their testimony, including Daenon.  This was definitely a first, and he was articulate, composed, and sincere.  His testimony may be simple, but it's definitely strong and clear.  My testimony was acknowledgement at of the billions of people to walk the earth without really understanding "the point" of this existence, and how fortunate we are to be part of such a privileged miniscule percentage to have so much truth to shed light on the most important questions in life.

Sunday pretty much ended after lunch,  Daenon shot 22's, did archery, and we played "pirate dice" (the game from Pirates of the Caribbean).  I listened to a lot of Dennis Prager and pondered.  After dinner last night we waited for a little over an hour for the fireside/opening ceremonies to start.  The last fifteen minutes Daenon's patience was spent and he just wanted to go back to the campsite.  I gently said "no" a dozen times since he wouldn't leave it alone.  He LOVED it.  It was high energy, the skits were the best I've seen, and the songs were hilarious,  One of the "skits" was a different variation of  The King, The Queen, and The Gate."  I think he'll have a lot of new material to share with other people.
Daenon, Andrew and Steven (other boys from our ward who are at the camp) shower every night.  They didn't get to bed until 11:30 last night and we had them up at 5 am this morning in order to have the campsite completely ready for inspection and to the flag raising at 6:30 am.  The level of detail for the inspection is extensive, and the boys were working solid for an hour.  Our troop was responsible for the flag raising.  Daenon raised the flag for his part and I'm still amazed at how grown up he is in front of large groups.  He is so in his element here.  I guess I am too even though I'm not really a camper.  Every morning and every evening I marvel at the American Flag being raised and lowered, the Pledge of Allegiance repeated with everyone in uniform with a proper solute, a second flag raised that represents a significant part of our founding history, a patriotic song sung by all, and a prayer said.  God and our founding American values have been so extensively silenced in our society, it feels strange to be figuratively so far removed from the masses in order to feel safe honoring goodness; and requiring young men to work hard and show discipline along with having some fun.  It's interesting to realize that without the LDS church's support of scouting, the Boys Scouts of America would fade into oblivion.  The fight for anything good is intense.

Daenon just came by after his lifesaving class.  The pools not heated, and I was curious how he would handle the cold water.  He casually said his heart rate didn't even increase and he was fine.  They do a polar bear swim Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday at 5:30 am.  I think he plans to do it each day.  He's off to his archery class.

Wednesday: Three times yesterday Daenon says he wants to come back next summer to Geronimo as staff.  He loves this place!!  They let 14 and 15 year olds work for Trading Post credits ($25/week), and then when they're 16 they get $125 a week of real dollars.  For Daenon, it's not about the money.  I'm sure there are some great camps in Texas.  It's so nice to see him taking all the initiative necessary to do the merit badge homework and follow-up to get his badges.  I don't have to say anything.  I think they purposely require outside class work to weed out those boys who are earning the badges from those who just want to show up and get handed the badges.  Last night they held elections for Order of the Arrow.  Tonight we have a general assembly and Daenon is really hoping he's elected.  He asked a lot of clarifying questions to determine if he met the eligibility requirements  The ordeal is done later in the summer, and he can do it in Texas if he's elected here.  I'll explain the details of the process later.  The ordeal consists of maintaining a code of complete silence from evening until the next afternoon, sleeping "completely" by yourself in the woods with only your sleeping bag, fasting breakfast, and doing hard labor in a service project during the day.  If you pass the ordeal, you become a member of the Order of the Arrow.

Breakfast was awesome this morning: cubed potatoes with salsa, strawberries and pineapple, cream of wheat with honey and raisins, and orange juice. Daenon and I are scheduled to do archery all afternoon.  He's excited about it and so am I.  I'm sure he's going to want to get his own bow and arrows, and set up a target range. 

Thank you!

I just have to say thank you to Kylee for the help she gave me in making by blog look wonderful!  If you remember what it looked like on Saturday you can appreciate all she's done.  I am truly blessed to have her as a daughter and friend.  She and Ryan do so much to brighten our lives!

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Auna & Ron's Wedding!














My wonderful oldest daughter gave me a CD of pictures from all the fun activities associated with Auna and Ron's wedding and her gradution. One of my primary reasons for blogging is to share fun things about our lives and these pictures are fun! We are looking forward to getting our pictures from cousin Heather too! There are more to come. Enjoy!